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FAQ

Here you will find answers to many of your questions -- well -- many of the lacrosse ones anyway !!!

Have a suggestion for something we missed ??

Send it to admin@benetlax.org and we'll work on it.

How do I volunteer to help a team or to join the Parent Board ??

posted Oct 20, 2010 10:54 PM by Team Admin

We need volunteers to run our home games and we need volunteers to the Redwing program.

Game Volunteers

See our Game Volunteers page for more info about our needs for home games.

Parent Board

See our other FAQs about the Parent Board and contact our 2011 President -- Mike Henderson for more info !!!

henderson@benetlax.org

Why do the teams play a different number of games ??

posted Oct 20, 2010 10:48 PM by Team Admin

The real answer is that scheduling is more of an art than a science so the number of games changes every year. In general though, we start the Frosh season a little later than the JV or Varsity to give them a better chance to play as a team instead of 10 individual players running around a field.
The JV starts in April for the same reason as the Frosh -- to give them a better chance to play as a team. The Varsity has the most aggressive schedule and typically starts it's season in March. They play two to three games a week until the playoffs in May. The younger players can't handle this tougher schedule  which is another reason they play fewer games than the older players.

Redwing Embroidery

posted Apr 26, 2010 9:09 PM by Team Admin

A number of parents have asked about having embroidery added to lacrosse bags.

Here are two options that parents have used and recommend:
  • Name Droppers of Chicago
    1807 South Washington Street, Naperville - (630) 717-7575
  • Helen Stit (near Route 53 and Maple) 630-852-2290

The IHSA and Boy's Lacrosse

posted Mar 14, 2010 2:37 PM by Team Admin   [ updated Oct 7, 2010 10:13 AM ]

One question that we frequently hear is regarding the sanctioning of boy's lacrosse by the IHSA.

The number of high schools needed to have a state championship series in lacrosse is 65 schools throughout Illinois.

Currently less than 65 schools agreed to play in a lacrosse state championship in 2011.

The expectation is that lacrosse will remain a club sport in 2011 throughout Illinois.

"What does the Parent Board do ..."

posted Jan 7, 2010 12:00 AM by Domain Administrator   [ updated Jan 7, 2010 12:02 AM ]

Our Wonderful Parent Board !!!

The Redwing Lacrosse Club is operated by a wonderful group of parents who VOLUNTEER an ENORMOUS amount of their personal and professional time and energy for the success of this program. They do all this work because they love their children and they feel an obligation to serve and improve the Benet community through their efforts.

The Parent Board is nearly overwhelmed with taking care of all the little details that go into supporting a successful lacrosse program.They have to worry about details as small as the brand of paint we use to line the fields !!! It takes an enormous amount of effort to run a successful program and even with all of our wonderful volunteers, we are still trying to catch up to other club teams like Loyola Academy (6state championships in 8 appearances) in terms of supporting our children and their success.

The Parent Board -- with all of our wonderful volunteers -- deal with field rentals, buses, game contracts, insurance policies, mailing lists, rosters, forms, game nutrition, rain delays -- the list is endless. To make all of this possible, parents must pay dues to the Redwing Lacrosse Club to pay the costs associated with running a successful high school lacrosse teams.

The Parent Board is responsible for supporting a competitive high school lacrosse program -- the coaches are responsible for running a competitive high school lacrosse program. Please do not approach a Parent Board member with any of the following common complaints. While I am sure they will politely listen to you -- the coaches have the final say in the following matters.

"I paid $XXX in dues !!! My son is entitled to ..."

posted Jan 6, 2010 11:53 PM by Domain Administrator   [ updated Jan 6, 2010 11:59 PM ]

The Redwing Lacrosse Club is a competitive high school lacrosse program just like high school basketball or football or soccer.

The Redwing Lacrosse Club is NOT a "Recreational" Lacrosse Program.

The fact that parents must pay dues for their son to participate in competitive high school lacrosse does not create"entitlements" for your son that you might expect from other "park district" or "recreational" lacrosse programs. In a competitive high school sport, your son is not entitled to be chosen for a certain team,is not entitled to play at a certain position and is not entitled to a minimum amount of playing time.

You son is entitled to be treated fairly and equally with his teammates in terms of access to quality coaching and in terms of the opportunity to succeed within the context of a team sport.

Your son receives three months of outstanding coaching by men who genuinely care about our lacrosse "family."

Your son also benefits from the resources needed to support the program including fields, buses, balls, goals, nets, clocks, horns, etc.

The opportunity for personal development as part of a youth sports team. Fair and equal treatment in all matters between team members. Equal opportunity to grow and succeed as a person and as a lacrosse player.

The coaches' mission is to develop our players into a team capable of winning conference and state championships. Moreover, the coaches want to use the sport of lacrosse to help our players learn to understand and to adopt the values of preparation, planning ahead, hard work, discipline, team work and a great attitude as the core values to having a successful lacrosse career and a successful adult life after lacrosse. I would venture to argue that most lacrosse players go on to have very successful lives because lacrosse builds and demands successful habits from it's players


"The coach told my son to play a NEW position. My son is entitled to play his OLD position ... tell the coach to change his mind !!!"

posted Jan 6, 2010 11:44 PM by Domain Administrator

The Parent Board is responsible for supporting a competitive high school lacrosse program -- the coaches are responsible for running a competitive high school lacrosse program. The Parent Board does not choose player positions and the coaches' decisions are final.

A tremendous amount of thought and care goes into these decisions.

While the coaches are always open to suggestions, the coaches' decisions are final.

The coaches will assign your son to a position that will:
- Improve his team's ability to win a Varsity or Junior Varsity championship.
- The position where your son will have the best chance to grow and to succeed as an individual.

Important Note: a player's position may change over the season or over his high school career.
Decisions are based upon the best interests of each player and the needs of his team.

"The coach does not give my son enough playing time. My son is entitled to a certain amount of playing time ... tell the coach to change his mind !!!"

posted Jan 6, 2010 11:42 PM by Domain Administrator

The Parent Board is responsible for supporting a competitive high school lacrosse program -- the coaches are responsible for running a competitive high school lacrosse program. T

he Parent Board does not allocate playing time and the coaches' decisions are final.

The purpose of competitive high school lacrosse is to win championships within the context of creating better athletes/people with respect to their individual skills, attitude and personal development.

The purpose of this program is not to provide equal playing time or to serve other social purposes.

Playing time is earned on the basis of values that do not include entitlement.

Your son will have a fair and equal opportunity to gain (or lose) playing time at every practice and every game through his superior work ethic, great attitude and through his lacrosse skills.

"The coach is unsupportive of my son's problems outside lacrosse ... tell the coach that he should help my son deal with my son's problems outside lacrosse !!!"

posted Jan 6, 2010 11:36 PM by Domain Administrator

The Parent Board is responsible for supporting a competitive high school lacrosse program -- the coaches are responsible for running a competitive high school lacrosse program.

Moreover, the Parent Board and the coaches can barely solve their own problems let alone anyone else's problems !!!

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The coaches are not certified counselors and are not trained to provide guidance beyond their expertise.

However, the coaches are trained to contact the appropriate authorities if they have proof that an abusive home situation threatens your son.

In addition, the coaches cannot serve as "baby-sitters" for 20+ players during practices and games.

If you son becomes a practice problem, an assistant coach will call you and you will be expected to pick him up immediately.

In some exceptional situations, a player may be asked to leave the team permanently if, in the coach's opinion, that player's improper actions or poor attitude becomes a significant detriment to his team on an ongoing basis.


"My son was injured (had a medical emergency). Why did the coach call 911 ??"

posted Jan 6, 2010 11:33 PM by Domain Administrator

Lacrosse is a potentially dangerous sport. While injuries are usually minor -- it is conceivable that your son could suffer a permanent, debilitating or even life-threatening injury

The coaches do not have medical certifications and they will not provide medical treatment to your son.

In the event of a medical emergency, a coach will call 911 FIRST -- There are no exceptions to this policy.

Moreover, your son has an obligation to tell a coach if he is injured or requires medical treatment that is not obvious to an untrained observer.

On the other hand your son will soon become a member of our team (one of our family) with that comes unconditional support from his team.

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